I already have a seat wrench because this stupid stem has broken on me 3 times in the past 2 years and at one point i thought changing the seat would solve my problem. And its not the ceramic disks that are breaking, believe it or not, its the stupid plastic part below the discs... why would someone make this garbage if it's not gonna hold up?
But I checked out the link that twowaxhack send and just from the picture it looks like it would fit perfectly. I have been trying to get this figured out since a few months after I moved in and you can't go anywhere for plumbing advice for a DIY project it seems. No one has the right knowledge. I'd happily pay a plumber to fix it right, I just don't have that in my budget, so I appreciate you guys answering my question so quickly and knowledgeably.