Timplemons, did you clean the valve stops/stop checks ? I know you cleaned the cartridge , but your problem could be at the stops/stop checks. You should have one of three valve type, Grohe 34-434 , 34-436 , 34-485
google those numbers to see which valve you have. Not saying that this is your problem , but 99 percent of pressure & temp problem with these valves are from the cartridge or stops/checks , the stops/check has screens on them just like the cartridge, they need to be removed and cleaned as well. Not sure if you did this already.