I've seen this before. People aren't getting what they are used to so they think there is a problem.
No problem here your just not used to it. I noticed you never said your weren't getting enough water, you said it wasn't the same. Your plumber was right.
Modern living. Every drop that goes down your drain needs to be treated. The powers that be realize this has been a huge waste of money for many years so they now say you need to use less, and companies agree.
I have multiple shower heads in my shower, but really only use more than one when there's more than one person in the shower with me
. Having more than one shower head is getting more popular, and different configurations of flow, along with that. Who knows if people are reacting to getting less water, by putting more shower heads into the shower, or if shower valve makers are pushing more fixtures by cutting the water that flows through them?
Either way your fine, good luck and enjoy your new shower