Here a link to instructions. maybe you can refer to problem in regars to this.
http://s7d1.scene7.com/is/content/Pfister/38134-0100
Not sure what you are dicribing
J goes on
E then
E goes into deck hole with
H
Nut
F goes below deck and tighten
K goes on
E
Should not be any thread on top.
Doesn't show but spout probably has an o-ring inside that seals on smooth surface of adapter.
post a picture if you can